Mind-Body Ritual #2: Finding Clarity Breath

Position
Seated upright in chair or cross-legged on floor cushion. You also could do this while meditative walking.
Breathing Pattern
3 second INHALE through the nose
4 second HOLD
3 second EXHALE through the nose
4 second HOLD
Intention
Slow down the mind through counted breathwork. Generate neutral awareness of the mind-body. Presence.
Practice
Find a relaxed position where your spine can obtain a neutral, upright posture
First, take a breath in through the nose and feel your lungs expand (3 seconds)
Make sure your shoulders are relaxed and "heavy"
Let your belly button push out just a little
Ensure you are breathing into the back part of your lungs.
Next, hold the breath at the top (4 seconds)
Here, silently counting might be beneficial
You can also keep rhythm by gently nodding your head back and forth
Then, let the breath out through the nose and feel your lungs contract (3 seconds)
Here, get at least to the same number of seconds as the inhalation
Let your belly button contract inwards and towards the spine
If tension needs to be released, you can exhale out through the mouth (but try to get to a point where you can do all the breathing through the nose)
Finally, hold the breath at the bottom (4 seconds)
Feel your body and slow your thoughts
Experiment with micro adjustments to your posture and core activation to create more stability and comfort in your body
Repeat this cycle from the inhale step for multiple repetitions
Try to find the spacious awareness that exists between the inhale and the exhale
Experiment with lengthening the breaths and holds:
Try a 4,6,4,6 combo or even a 6,8,6,8 combo
Try a 4,4,4,4 combo or even a 6,6,6,6 (traditional box breath)
Breathe until this flow of awareness between the brain and body feels natural and settled
Remember that the intention is to find neutral awareness, so do not push too hard on the inhale or the exhale. The space in between the inhale and exhale is longer for good purpose, but sometimes the traditional box breath is a little easier to start with. Do whichever combination allows your nervous system to settle so that you can build the mind-body ritual. You can always make the breath more challenging once you have built a solid foundation.
This is the perfect "starter breath" for those who are looking for the first step into mindfulness and a more active Presence.